Many times in life, we as humans sometimes try to hold onto things or certain people too much. Try as we may, we cling to antiquated notions of who we want or had known people to be, neglecting to see the ways they’ve changed and we’ve changed.
Some folks tend to cling desperately to what was, failing to acknowledge that in order to receive new Blessings, we need to release the antiquated things and people… especially from within the roles we had always known them. Figuratively; and sometimes, literally.
When people make their final wishes known to become a DNR, no matter how much discomfort we feel in the prospect of having to “let go” before we may be ready, we need to honor these important fundamental beliefs and human rights. If someone tells us they want us to honor that is their wish, we need to stand in whatever spiritual and life truths brought them to that decision… and honor it. If we cannot, we need to let anyone who has asked us to make those decisions know we cannot be the person to honor their wishes… so they can find someone who will honor all of whom they are. People have the right to whatever way they wish to leave this life, including refusing certain medical procedures, treatments, etc. according to their life story, their spiritual beliefs, and so forth. Please honor however your loved ones request to be released from this physical realm… as passing in a manner more conducive to all they were, permits a more peaceful energy/soul transfer onto the next leg of their journey. Everyone deserves a peaceful passing.